I was flipping through my old magazines (hoping to get through 5-6 years of magazines so I can recycle them) and found something I knew I’d read somewhere..

“Are Orgasms Overrated?” – Redbook magazine, January 2005
You love to climax (who doesn’t?), but still enjoy lovemaking even when you don’t reach that peak. You’re not alone: Ninety percent of women are still satisfied even if they don’t have an orgasm every time they make love, according to a study at Sheffield University in England. The research also revealed that the vast majority of women find that the sensuality of cuddling, kissing and touching every bit as fulfilling as a climax, says Paula Nicolson, lead researcher and professor of health psychology at the university.

“We found that women’s sexual pleasure occurs on many levels other than simply orgasm alone,” says Nicolson. So even if you don’t reach your zenith regularly – yes! yes! yes! – you can still enjoy a scorching and satisfying sex life.

I gave that to the hubby to read because it makes a lot more sense there than when I’m trying to explain it to him – lol.